Someday you’re going to fall head over heels in love. Maybe you already have.

But Wait! You can't live happily ever after on feelings. You've got to use your brains. Emotions are always the first thing to fade after you tie the knot.

So if your special someone is making noises about getting engaged, go through this checklist today. You'll be glad you did tomorrow.

1. Have you finished college, gotten a job, or learned how to be financially independent? If you get married too soon, you may never know the thrill of standing on your own two feet.
2. Has he finished college, gotten a job, and established himself well enough to support a family? Maybe you can live on love, but your children will need food, clothing and a roof over their heads.
   
3. Do you have your parents’ blessing? It’s not just a tradition — it's common sense. Especially if you look forward to having a mom and dad around for advice, financial help and free babysitting.
4. Do you have something in common besides physical attraction? Will he still be your prince charming when he has crow’- feet, love handles and a bald spot?
5. Are you both of similar faith and convictions? Couples with strong faith and trust - especially in each other - have a far greater chance of a happy marriage and a far lower frequency of divorce.
6. Have you had pre marital counseling?
7. Are you agreed about how many children you want?
8. Are you saving yourself sexually for marriage? Sure, it sounds old-fashioned. But it's the only way to make sure your wedding night is the most special night of your life.

Date of Engagement: ____________